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| Title | Pointblank Times, June 1976 |
| Date | July 1976 |
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| Language | English |
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| Original Item Location | HQ75 .P64 |
| Original Item URL | http://library.uh.edu/record=b3767189~S11 |
| Digital Collection | Houston and Texas Feminist and Lesbian Newsletters |
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| Transcript | Dear Ann Lavender, Dear Diana, I am twenty years old and my lover is twenty-six. We have been together for five years and we are in love just as much now as we were when we first started going together. She is very kind and gentle. This is the first time we had been separated because I am going to school at College Station, A & II, but we get together every chance we get. During these times, I find that by using my vibrator, I can satisfy myself very quickly and relieve a lot of sexual tension. Now, when we difficult to ual relation love the fee but I just c point of no not her faul good lover, another girl get together, I find it reach an orgasm during sex- s. I get very excited and I ling of being together, an't seem to get to the return. I know that it is t because she is a very I have also made love with , and had the same problem. I am beginning to worry about whether I have ruined myself by using my vibrator. She does not like to use the vibrator on me and now this is a source of frustration for both of us. She thinks that it is her fault or that I have someone else. But she is the only one I love. I don't know what to do. I never had this problem before, I am really worried and look forward to vour advice. Diana Your situation is ironic. On the one hand, you are presently better immediately satisfied by a source other than your lover. And yet, this situation causes frustration in yourself and your lover. I've never heard of or known of a couple who can continually satisfy each other sexually. Sexual fulfillment, like so many things, varies in intensities. The rush, the slow enchantments, the cool distances are just some of the natural flows in sexual natures. What conquers the dry spells is often simply trust and love in a deeper e- motional sense. I don't believe you've ruined yourself with a vibrator. But, it may be wise to abstain from using the vibrator and focus your energies toward your lover. This requires a great deal of patience and endurance. Again, return to trust and caring. Your situation is both difficult and common. If you and your lover realize this together, it may help the frustration. Aijf[ Urfendcr Mailing Address: P.O. Box 14643, Houston, Texas 77021 We welcome all contributions, including features, reviews, poetry, graphics, announcements, and photographs. Please tell us how you would want your name to appear, and whether you want your material returned to you. Staff: Liz Brimm/Clare/Sherry Collier/Sharon Behrends/Pokey Anderson/Nancy/ Mary Ann Causey/Claire Noonan/Vicki Glasgow/Susan/Cy PBT is also available at: Abraxas, Big City News, Just Marion S Lynn's, Li bran, Odd's Place, University Boulevard Book Store, and the Women's Center. 12 |